Dear Readers,
Awkward and shy love are actually the best kind. Shyness is fear, it's proof your lover is scared of you. You say, WHAT? Well, be nice to him/her, and always be gentle with words, be careful what you say. Never rush a relationship, it never works right. No offense, but long distance relationships never work, it just doesn't compare to being with each other. That means it's time to let go, see if when your together again, there's still something there. If there isn't then it's time to move on.
Cheaters never win. If you must be with someone else, at least tell the other person. It really hurts to see the one you love with someone else. Also, to those who have been cheated on, a boy who makes you cry doesn't deserve you! Maybe when he matures up, then give him one chance, but unless that, you need to move on. It'll just hurt you more, remember, your not hurting anyone but yourself.
Awkward love is when you know you love each other, but never know what to say. it usually means you don't have much in common, but not having things in common isn't a bad thing, it just means that you need to learn more about each other. It never hurts to find the truth. Sticks and stones can brake your bonesm but words can never hurt you. Never be shy to talk to a guy girls, they are just as a afraid of you!
Here's to you guys, a real girl isn't about how pretty she looks and how sexy she is, it's about how bug her heart is, and is she loving or is she mean? It doesn't matter if a girl is sexy or hot, it only matters on how she treats others. =) Well, I hope this helps!
-Sapph <3
P.S Life is only so long, never waste it hurrying. :)
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Sunday, September 15, 2013
New Friends
Dear Readers,
I know it can be hard losing a friend, and harder yet picking the right one. Well, that has happened to me over a hundred times. When you lose a dear friend, it may seem like the end of the world, but girl took him/her out of your life for a reason. Maybe they were giving you the wrong influences, but he'll always give you something better. After you lose a friend, it's alright to cry, I mean, your friends are like family right? Well, hang out with your REAL blood family. What if I'm an only child, right? I am too, hang with a pet, or a parent!
Finding another friend may seem hopeless, but the problem is shyness and not REALLY wanting another friend. So, actually talk to people. Introduce yourself. Before inviting anyone over, always get to know them. Make sure they are someone that's nice, and will be good to you. If they are, work it out with your parents, and then you got a relationship starting!
P.S Relationships take time, a rushed one never works. Good luck!
Hope this helps,
-Sapph
I know it can be hard losing a friend, and harder yet picking the right one. Well, that has happened to me over a hundred times. When you lose a dear friend, it may seem like the end of the world, but girl took him/her out of your life for a reason. Maybe they were giving you the wrong influences, but he'll always give you something better. After you lose a friend, it's alright to cry, I mean, your friends are like family right? Well, hang out with your REAL blood family. What if I'm an only child, right? I am too, hang with a pet, or a parent!
Finding another friend may seem hopeless, but the problem is shyness and not REALLY wanting another friend. So, actually talk to people. Introduce yourself. Before inviting anyone over, always get to know them. Make sure they are someone that's nice, and will be good to you. If they are, work it out with your parents, and then you got a relationship starting!
P.S Relationships take time, a rushed one never works. Good luck!
Hope this helps,
-Sapph
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
Teenagers vs. Parents 2
Dear Readers,
I have been so busy lately, so I haven't got to post a note to you teens out there. Well, here it goes!
Okay, well, I understand how you can get edgy around parents, remember, I'm a teen too. Well, there's nothing wrong with being in a bad mood, but you shouldn't be disrespective to your parents. The bible says that it is the sin of witch craft, do you want to be a witch? It's fine with me, you can start telling everyone your a witch! Your thinking, "Well that's different!" Sadly, your wrong. It's the same thing is different ways, well, so your a witch, you might as well tell everyone that! Well, if your parents are being hard on you, I understand, sometimes I just wanna scream. You see, my mom LOVES to talk, well, it's hard to not say something like.... "SHUT UP!!!" Well, I just do my absolute hardest to make myself not say a stinkin' word. Well, here's something else useful, when parents give you a hard time, think of all the things you would lose if you didn't have them, think of everything they do for you. Not feeling so mad anymore, huh? Well, if I didn't have my parents here's all the things I wouldn't have.
1. No home
2. No food or water
3. No money
4.I'd loose everything I own.
and most of all
5. I'd have no family, or no one to love me, or no shoulders to cry on when I'm sad.
I always seem to be happier about the matter when I think of that, I know, it's hard being a teenager, but you can't take that out on other people. :) I hope this helps.
~Sapph
(P.S. Email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com for advice, I will post a response on Sapph's Advice Blog. Check it out!)
(P.P.S scroll through my other posts to see if there are any topics that interest you! I try to post all the possible topics I can think of.)
I have been so busy lately, so I haven't got to post a note to you teens out there. Well, here it goes!
Okay, well, I understand how you can get edgy around parents, remember, I'm a teen too. Well, there's nothing wrong with being in a bad mood, but you shouldn't be disrespective to your parents. The bible says that it is the sin of witch craft, do you want to be a witch? It's fine with me, you can start telling everyone your a witch! Your thinking, "Well that's different!" Sadly, your wrong. It's the same thing is different ways, well, so your a witch, you might as well tell everyone that! Well, if your parents are being hard on you, I understand, sometimes I just wanna scream. You see, my mom LOVES to talk, well, it's hard to not say something like.... "SHUT UP!!!" Well, I just do my absolute hardest to make myself not say a stinkin' word. Well, here's something else useful, when parents give you a hard time, think of all the things you would lose if you didn't have them, think of everything they do for you. Not feeling so mad anymore, huh? Well, if I didn't have my parents here's all the things I wouldn't have.
1. No home
2. No food or water
3. No money
4.I'd loose everything I own.
and most of all
5. I'd have no family, or no one to love me, or no shoulders to cry on when I'm sad.
I always seem to be happier about the matter when I think of that, I know, it's hard being a teenager, but you can't take that out on other people. :) I hope this helps.
~Sapph
(P.S. Email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com for advice, I will post a response on Sapph's Advice Blog. Check it out!)
(P.P.S scroll through my other posts to see if there are any topics that interest you! I try to post all the possible topics I can think of.)
Sunday, August 11, 2013
HF and Sapph :) BLOOMEH
Well, me, Bloom, and Harmony have youtube channels. :D
Sapph's Utube channel
Bloom's Utube channel
HF has some issues yet, but I will post it up later! XD
~Sapph
Sapph's Utube channel
Bloom's Utube channel
HF has some issues yet, but I will post it up later! XD
~Sapph
Teenagers vs. Parents 1
Dear Readers,
Okay, well right now I want to talk to the parents. To get a stubborn teen to listen to you, sometimes you have to challenge them into it, and other times, you just need to be gentle. Listen to me, cause I technically am a teen. Well, if they start to get stubborn, then you need to challenge them into it, they are in the mood to play rough, so a challenge will usually make them listen. Or if they are having a bad day, and they are crying and don't want to listen, be gentle, show them you care. Then maybe, just maybe, you'll see what a kind heart can do. With me, when I'm in a bad mood and my mom tries to talk to me a lot so that I'll feel better, well, I just wanted to be alone, and she came in and wouldn't stop talking, I recommend you give them some time alone. If it looks like they just want a mother, than stay with them, but silence can work miracles. I hope this helps, tomorrow or later today I will post to the teens. >:) Good luck!
~Sapph
(P.S. If you need advice send an email to sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post the response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
(P.P.S Scroll through my past posts, to see if there are other topics that bring any help to you!)
:)
Okay, well right now I want to talk to the parents. To get a stubborn teen to listen to you, sometimes you have to challenge them into it, and other times, you just need to be gentle. Listen to me, cause I technically am a teen. Well, if they start to get stubborn, then you need to challenge them into it, they are in the mood to play rough, so a challenge will usually make them listen. Or if they are having a bad day, and they are crying and don't want to listen, be gentle, show them you care. Then maybe, just maybe, you'll see what a kind heart can do. With me, when I'm in a bad mood and my mom tries to talk to me a lot so that I'll feel better, well, I just wanted to be alone, and she came in and wouldn't stop talking, I recommend you give them some time alone. If it looks like they just want a mother, than stay with them, but silence can work miracles. I hope this helps, tomorrow or later today I will post to the teens. >:) Good luck!
~Sapph
(P.S. If you need advice send an email to sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post the response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
(P.P.S Scroll through my past posts, to see if there are other topics that bring any help to you!)
:)
Thursday, August 8, 2013
To all you friend zoners-
Dear Readers,
I know everyone hates being in the friend zone, I know how you feel, I've been there forever. It can feel like a long time, but don't worry, after awhile, then someone will come. I promise you. Maybe some of us aren't meant to have someone, but if we are, then he'll come, I promise. Remember, everyone sits in the friend zone and waits for their Prince Charming to come, well get up and find him! I mean, the poor idiot may be stuck in a tree or something! XD Anywho, find things to occupy yourself. Like find a hobby, for guys, fishing, hunting, or something you like. For girls, reading, drawing, and stuff like that. Join a club at your school. Make some friends. :) I hope you find your knight in shining armor. :D Hope this helps!
~Sapph
(P.S. If you need any advice email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, I will post a response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
(P.P.S If you want other information, look through my posts, I try to post on all topics.)
I know everyone hates being in the friend zone, I know how you feel, I've been there forever. It can feel like a long time, but don't worry, after awhile, then someone will come. I promise you. Maybe some of us aren't meant to have someone, but if we are, then he'll come, I promise. Remember, everyone sits in the friend zone and waits for their Prince Charming to come, well get up and find him! I mean, the poor idiot may be stuck in a tree or something! XD Anywho, find things to occupy yourself. Like find a hobby, for guys, fishing, hunting, or something you like. For girls, reading, drawing, and stuff like that. Join a club at your school. Make some friends. :) I hope you find your knight in shining armor. :D Hope this helps!
~Sapph
(P.S. If you need any advice email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, I will post a response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
(P.P.S If you want other information, look through my posts, I try to post on all topics.)
Heart Break
Dear Readers,
I know break ups are hard, but listen, and listen very closely. If a guy breaks your heart, he's not worth the pain. No matter what you say, a guy that tears you to pieces, or/and makes you cry, is not worth the tears. What do tears make? Pain. A guy is not worth pain. If your meant to be with someone, they'll come. I PROMISE you. So, stop crying over someone that probably isn't for you! I hope you understand, and this helps. :)
~Sapph
Remember if you need any advice, email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post you a response at Sapph's Advice Blog! :)
I know break ups are hard, but listen, and listen very closely. If a guy breaks your heart, he's not worth the pain. No matter what you say, a guy that tears you to pieces, or/and makes you cry, is not worth the tears. What do tears make? Pain. A guy is not worth pain. If your meant to be with someone, they'll come. I PROMISE you. So, stop crying over someone that probably isn't for you! I hope you understand, and this helps. :)
~Sapph
Remember if you need any advice, email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post you a response at Sapph's Advice Blog! :)
Final step, Friend are more than that-
Dear Readers,
Okay, well yesterday I told you I would give you the final step on how to talk to a be re-friends with a friend. Okay, well, yesterday you were supposed to do something with your friend, don't do this step without doing the last one. It's very important to follow the steps in order. :) It brings a better friendship when it's not rushed. Well, if you did the other steps, today you'll be doing the very last step. Okay, call your friend, but don't call too much, remember, don't be annoyingly addictive. Cause you don't know your friend much anymore, so you shouldn't bother them every single second. That's reserved for best friends. ;) Well, call them once or twice at the most, then invite them out to lunch. While out at lunch, bring up past memories, see if they seem interested and remember them. If they don't, I hate to tell you, but it won't happen. They either have severe memory problems, or they just aren't into the friendship as much as you are. Well, I wish you the best of luck for you and your friendship. Hope this helps.
~Sapph
Remember if you need any help, email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and ask for some advice on something. I will post a response on Sapph's advice Blog. :)
Okay, well yesterday I told you I would give you the final step on how to talk to a be re-friends with a friend. Okay, well, yesterday you were supposed to do something with your friend, don't do this step without doing the last one. It's very important to follow the steps in order. :) It brings a better friendship when it's not rushed. Well, if you did the other steps, today you'll be doing the very last step. Okay, call your friend, but don't call too much, remember, don't be annoyingly addictive. Cause you don't know your friend much anymore, so you shouldn't bother them every single second. That's reserved for best friends. ;) Well, call them once or twice at the most, then invite them out to lunch. While out at lunch, bring up past memories, see if they seem interested and remember them. If they don't, I hate to tell you, but it won't happen. They either have severe memory problems, or they just aren't into the friendship as much as you are. Well, I wish you the best of luck for you and your friendship. Hope this helps.
~Sapph
Remember if you need any help, email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and ask for some advice on something. I will post a response on Sapph's advice Blog. :)
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Bullies?
Dear Readers,
This post is dedicated to two groups. One, the bullied, two, the bullies. Okay, so here we go!
Bullied:
When someone bullies you, remember this. Every bully is a bully for a reason. Don't ever bully back, think about how YOU feel when they bully you. Turn the other cheek. I'm not saying let them beat you up. I'm saying if they call you a name or something, say whatever and leave. If they beat you up on the other hand, fet a teacher or parent immediately. No one has the right to physically hurt someone, or in anyway! Well, remember, be nice and receive nice, be mean, and receive mean back. :)
Bullies:
When someones a bully it's always for a reason, like I said. If your gonna fight whatever's wrong by being mean, that's not the right option. Tell someone what's wrong. Tell your parents, your teacher, you can even tell me! If you have a problem, email sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, then I will post a response on Sapph's Advice Blog. :) There's nothing wrong with getting help, and no matter what you say there's always someone to go to. If you don't have a friend or parents or teacher, go to Jesus. :) He is always there, and he will always help.
I hope all this help, if you need more advice email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com. :)
~Sapph
This post is dedicated to two groups. One, the bullied, two, the bullies. Okay, so here we go!
Bullied:
When someone bullies you, remember this. Every bully is a bully for a reason. Don't ever bully back, think about how YOU feel when they bully you. Turn the other cheek. I'm not saying let them beat you up. I'm saying if they call you a name or something, say whatever and leave. If they beat you up on the other hand, fet a teacher or parent immediately. No one has the right to physically hurt someone, or in anyway! Well, remember, be nice and receive nice, be mean, and receive mean back. :)
Bullies:
When someones a bully it's always for a reason, like I said. If your gonna fight whatever's wrong by being mean, that's not the right option. Tell someone what's wrong. Tell your parents, your teacher, you can even tell me! If you have a problem, email sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, then I will post a response on Sapph's Advice Blog. :) There's nothing wrong with getting help, and no matter what you say there's always someone to go to. If you don't have a friend or parents or teacher, go to Jesus. :) He is always there, and he will always help.
I hope all this help, if you need more advice email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com. :)
~Sapph
Friends are more than that 2
Dear Readers,
I'm posting from the Ipad, so if it is any different sorry... Well, I said today I would tell you the next step of talking to a friend you haven't talked to in awhile. Okay, so if you tried the last step, you should at least know a little about each other. I recommend you do all the steps, it's better for a better friendship. Okay, so today's step, which you should take it slow. Friendships aren't always good ones if they're rushed into. Okay, today invite the friend over, or go out to eat with them. Never invite yourself over, friendships shouldn't be started, or restarted with rude actions. That just means your friendship relies on doing rude things in order to see each other. Antyway, if they can't come over today, arrange a day that's better for both of you. Once they get to your house, or where ever your going, then bring up a subject you both like. It's easier if you both like it, it brakes ice, and it will be easier to talk about for you. Ask your friend what he/she would like to do. If they say they don't care or something, than suggest things, like watch a movie. Never bring up a meal for the first option. It means for one thing, you have no clue what to do, and your just making random suggestions. That will make it very awkward for your friend. Once it's time to go. Try to arrange another date somewhat later. Hope this helps. I'll post the last step tomorrow. ;)
~Sapph
I'm posting from the Ipad, so if it is any different sorry... Well, I said today I would tell you the next step of talking to a friend you haven't talked to in awhile. Okay, so if you tried the last step, you should at least know a little about each other. I recommend you do all the steps, it's better for a better friendship. Okay, so today's step, which you should take it slow. Friendships aren't always good ones if they're rushed into. Okay, today invite the friend over, or go out to eat with them. Never invite yourself over, friendships shouldn't be started, or restarted with rude actions. That just means your friendship relies on doing rude things in order to see each other. Antyway, if they can't come over today, arrange a day that's better for both of you. Once they get to your house, or where ever your going, then bring up a subject you both like. It's easier if you both like it, it brakes ice, and it will be easier to talk about for you. Ask your friend what he/she would like to do. If they say they don't care or something, than suggest things, like watch a movie. Never bring up a meal for the first option. It means for one thing, you have no clue what to do, and your just making random suggestions. That will make it very awkward for your friend. Once it's time to go. Try to arrange another date somewhat later. Hope this helps. I'll post the last step tomorrow. ;)
~Sapph
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Help me!
Dear Readers,
I've given you lots of advise, but I was hoping you could give me some. :) I take piano lessons cause when I was little, as all little kids, I bit off more than I could chew and wanted to do piano lessons. So my parents signed me up. I love music with all my heart, but I can't take it! My mom makes it like a vacation to hell to do piano practice. I can't help but hate it! I thought that it wasn't right to make someone do something if they aren't happy with it, or was I wrong? My mom either doesn't care about my happiness, or I have serious problems. Can I get any help?
~Sapph
I've given you lots of advise, but I was hoping you could give me some. :) I take piano lessons cause when I was little, as all little kids, I bit off more than I could chew and wanted to do piano lessons. So my parents signed me up. I love music with all my heart, but I can't take it! My mom makes it like a vacation to hell to do piano practice. I can't help but hate it! I thought that it wasn't right to make someone do something if they aren't happy with it, or was I wrong? My mom either doesn't care about my happiness, or I have serious problems. Can I get any help?
~Sapph
Want MORE Advise?
Dear Readers,
If you want even more advise, I have a blog called "Sapph's Advise Blog" Email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, asking about advise, I will answer on there. :) Hope this helps. :D
If you want even more advise, I have a blog called "Sapph's Advise Blog" Email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, asking about advise, I will answer on there. :) Hope this helps. :D
Trouble with friends-
Dear Readers,
When your having trouble with a friend tell them. It's simple. If they make a decicion you aren't happy with, or you want to do something different then they do, tell them. If they are a true friend, they will understand, and they will do what they can. Maybe they won't change it completely, and that's alright, but they should explain why, and you should understand that. Friendship is rarer than the rarest rubies, you should protect it, and not anything brake it. It is also as fragile as your mother's china that is only used when special guests come over. When a friend makes a bad decision, tell them why you think it's bad gently, and be willing to listen to their response, it's probably a misunderstanding. When a friend starts to leave you out, call them and invite them to do something. Work out a play date with them with your parents. Never brake the rules for a friend, unless it's for each other's safety, and only if you must. A friendship isn't true if you have to hide the truth. Always tell the truth with your friends, they mean more than a bunch of lies. :) I hope this helps.
When your having trouble with a friend tell them. It's simple. If they make a decicion you aren't happy with, or you want to do something different then they do, tell them. If they are a true friend, they will understand, and they will do what they can. Maybe they won't change it completely, and that's alright, but they should explain why, and you should understand that. Friendship is rarer than the rarest rubies, you should protect it, and not anything brake it. It is also as fragile as your mother's china that is only used when special guests come over. When a friend makes a bad decision, tell them why you think it's bad gently, and be willing to listen to their response, it's probably a misunderstanding. When a friend starts to leave you out, call them and invite them to do something. Work out a play date with them with your parents. Never brake the rules for a friend, unless it's for each other's safety, and only if you must. A friendship isn't true if you have to hide the truth. Always tell the truth with your friends, they mean more than a bunch of lies. :) I hope this helps.
Friends are more than that.
Dear Readers,
Do you wanna know how to talk to a friend that you haven't talked to in quite sometime? I know a lot of people ask this question, and I understand why. You see, when you haven't talked to a friend in awhile, you often feel like they are a stranger, so that makes you "shy" around them. Well, since you haven't spoke with them in awhile, it's okay to ask question like, "What's your favorite color?" or, "What's your favorite song?" The reason why it's okay to ask the same questions you would ask to a stranger, which you probably already know this, you would most likely need to re-get-to-know them. Well, try redoing it all then check my post tomorrow for what to do next. Hope this helps. Bye!
Do you wanna know how to talk to a friend that you haven't talked to in quite sometime? I know a lot of people ask this question, and I understand why. You see, when you haven't talked to a friend in awhile, you often feel like they are a stranger, so that makes you "shy" around them. Well, since you haven't spoke with them in awhile, it's okay to ask question like, "What's your favorite color?" or, "What's your favorite song?" The reason why it's okay to ask the same questions you would ask to a stranger, which you probably already know this, you would most likely need to re-get-to-know them. Well, try redoing it all then check my post tomorrow for what to do next. Hope this helps. Bye!
How to train a stubborn dog....
Dear Readers,
Well, I've come to finally decided how on earth to train a very stubborn dog in a few steps.
1. Let them have their way for a day exactly. Make sure you don't go over or they will get used to the idea, and the training has already been failed.
2. On day 2, put the dog outside all day, when they try to get in calmly tell them to go to bed, or go lay down. However you normally tell them.
Tip: Don't ever be harsh with an animal, they will either be harsh with you, or take it the wrong way.
3. On day 3, call them, if they come give them a small treat, or pet them for awhile. If they don't come go to them and call them when your infront of them. If they respond in anyway, leave. If they don't acknowledge you in anyway, then kneel down beside them, and say their name a little louder.
Tip: Never yell at your pet.
4. On day four, put the dog in it's crate, or in a room alone.
5. The last day, the dog will learn to come to you and listen. Keep doing this routine until they start to listen to you. :)
I hope this helps! Once you've done the routine for awhile, comment and tell me how it went!
Hope this helped!
Well, I've come to finally decided how on earth to train a very stubborn dog in a few steps.
1. Let them have their way for a day exactly. Make sure you don't go over or they will get used to the idea, and the training has already been failed.
2. On day 2, put the dog outside all day, when they try to get in calmly tell them to go to bed, or go lay down. However you normally tell them.
Tip: Don't ever be harsh with an animal, they will either be harsh with you, or take it the wrong way.
3. On day 3, call them, if they come give them a small treat, or pet them for awhile. If they don't come go to them and call them when your infront of them. If they respond in anyway, leave. If they don't acknowledge you in anyway, then kneel down beside them, and say their name a little louder.
Tip: Never yell at your pet.
4. On day four, put the dog in it's crate, or in a room alone.
5. The last day, the dog will learn to come to you and listen. Keep doing this routine until they start to listen to you. :)
I hope this helps! Once you've done the routine for awhile, comment and tell me how it went!
Hope this helped!
Hey!
Ello jellos! I am Sapph, and this is my blog. :) I have plently blogs, and sites, so I'm not gonna list them all. I will post helpful advise, stories, tips, and lots more. Check in often for updates and then tell me what you think by commenting. :) Well, good luck to you in your life! Okay, that was lame...
Eh, what the heck! Bye!
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