Love

Dear Readers,
     Awkward and shy love are actually the best kind.  Shyness is fear, it's proof your lover is scared of you.  You say, WHAT?  Well, be nice to him/her, and always be gentle with words, be careful what you say.  Never rush a relationship, it never works right.  No offense, but long distance relationships never work, it just doesn't compare to being with each other.  That means it's time to let go, see if when your together again, there's still something there.  If there isn't then it's time to move on.

Cheaters never win.  If you must be with someone else, at least tell the other person.  It really hurts to see the one you love with someone else.  Also, to those who have been cheated on, a boy who makes you cry doesn't deserve you!  Maybe when he matures up, then give him one chance, but unless that, you need to move on.  It'll just hurt you more, remember, your not hurting anyone but yourself.

Awkward love is when you know you love each other, but never know what to say.  it usually means you don't have much in common, but not having things in common isn't a bad thing, it just means that you need to learn more about each other.  It never hurts to find the truth.  Sticks and stones can brake your bonesm but words can never hurt you.  Never be shy to talk to a guy girls, they are just as a afraid of you!

Here's to you guys, a real girl isn't about how pretty she looks and how sexy she is, it's about how bug her heart is, and is she loving or is she mean?  It doesn't matter if a girl is sexy or hot, it only matters on how she treats others.  =)  Well, I hope this helps!

-Sapph <3

P.S Life is only so long, never waste it hurrying. :)

New Friends

Dear Readers,
     I know it can be hard losing a friend, and harder yet picking the right one.  Well, that has happened to me over a hundred times.  When you lose a dear friend, it may seem like the end of the world, but girl took him/her out of your life for a reason.  Maybe they were giving you the wrong influences, but he'll always give you something better.  After you lose a friend, it's alright to cry, I mean, your friends are like family right?  Well, hang out with your REAL blood family.  What if I'm an only child, right?  I am too, hang with a pet, or a parent!

Finding another friend may seem hopeless, but the problem is shyness and not REALLY wanting another friend.  So, actually talk to people.  Introduce yourself.  Before inviting anyone over, always get to know them.  Make sure they are someone that's nice, and will be good to you.  If they are, work it out with your parents, and then you got a relationship starting!

P.S  Relationships take time, a rushed one never works.  Good luck!

Hope this helps,
-Sapph

Teenagers vs. Parents 2

Dear Readers,
     I have been so busy lately, so I haven't got to post a note to you teens out there.  Well, here it goes!

     Okay, well, I understand how you can get edgy around parents, remember, I'm a teen too.  Well, there's nothing wrong with being in a bad mood, but you shouldn't be disrespective to your parents.  The bible says that it is the sin of witch craft, do you want to be a witch?  It's fine with me, you can start telling everyone your a witch!  Your thinking, "Well that's different!"  Sadly, your wrong.  It's the same thing is different ways, well, so your a witch, you might as well tell everyone that!  Well, if your parents are being hard on you, I understand, sometimes I just wanna scream.  You see, my mom LOVES to talk, well, it's hard to not say something like.... "SHUT UP!!!"  Well, I just do my absolute hardest to make myself not say a stinkin' word.  Well, here's something else useful, when parents give you a hard time, think of all the things you would lose if you didn't have them, think of everything they do for you.  Not feeling so mad anymore, huh?  Well, if I didn't have my parents here's all the things I wouldn't have.

1. No home
2. No food or water
3. No money
4.I'd loose everything I own.
and most of all
5. I'd have no family, or no one to love me, or no shoulders to cry on when I'm sad.

     I always seem to be happier about the matter when I think of that, I know, it's hard being a teenager, but you can't take that out on other people.  :)  I hope this helps.
~Sapph

(P.S. Email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com for advice, I will post a response on Sapph's Advice Blog.  Check it out!)
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~Sapph

Teenagers vs. Parents 1

Dear Readers,
     Okay, well right now I want to talk to the parents.  To get a stubborn teen to listen to you, sometimes you have to challenge them into it, and other times, you just need to be gentle.  Listen to me, cause I technically am a teen.  Well, if they start to get stubborn, then you need to challenge them into it, they are in the mood to play rough, so a challenge will usually make them listen.  Or if they are having a bad day, and they are crying and don't want to listen, be gentle, show them you care.  Then maybe, just maybe, you'll see what a kind heart can do.  With me, when I'm in a bad mood and my mom tries to talk to me a lot so that I'll feel better, well, I just wanted to be alone, and she came in and wouldn't stop talking, I recommend you give them some time alone.  If it looks like they just want a mother, than stay with them, but silence can work miracles.  I hope this helps, tomorrow or later today I will post to the teens. >:)  Good luck!
~Sapph

(P.S. If you need advice send an email to sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post the response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
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:)

To all you friend zoners-

Dear Readers,
     I know everyone hates being in the friend zone, I know how you feel, I've been there forever.  It can feel like a long time, but don't worry, after awhile, then someone will come.  I promise you.  Maybe some of us aren't meant to have someone, but if we are, then he'll come, I promise.  Remember, everyone sits in the friend zone and waits for their Prince Charming to come, well get up and find him! I mean, the poor idiot may be stuck in a tree or something! XD  Anywho, find things to occupy yourself.  Like find a hobby, for guys, fishing, hunting, or something you like.  For girls, reading, drawing, and stuff like that.  Join a club at your school.  Make some friends.  :)  I hope you find your knight in shining armor.  :D  Hope this helps!
~Sapph

(P.S. If you need any advice email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, I will post a response at Sapph's Advice Blog.)
(P.P.S If you want other information, look through my posts, I try to post on all topics.)

Heart Break

Dear Readers,
     I know break ups are hard, but listen, and listen very closely.  If a guy breaks your heart, he's not worth the pain.  No matter what you say, a guy that tears you to pieces, or/and makes you cry, is not worth the tears.  What do tears make?  Pain.  A guy is not worth pain.  If your meant to be with someone, they'll come.  I PROMISE you.  So, stop crying over someone that probably isn't for you!  I hope you understand, and this helps. :)
~Sapph

Remember if you need any advice, email me at sapphirepeace16@gmail.com, and I will post you a response at Sapph's Advice Blog! :)